A Few Ways Guys Can Attract Girls

By Danny

There are a number of different ways guys can attract girls. We have all seen some beauties with some beasts and wonder, "how in the world did he get her." Now you may not be a beast, but here are a few things that you can do to attract good looking women.

Show confidence.

Confidence is probably the most important thing a girl looks for in a guy. No good looking woman wants to date a guy who is not sure of himself. She wants a guy who she can be with. When you look at her, convey the feeling that you know what you want and that you are going to get it. Walk upright, shoulders back and make smooth conscious movements. These things convey a confident guy and this is what you want to be. Think James Bond here...

Be funny.

Girls love a funny guy. When I ask my girl friends what is the thing they like about hanging with us they always reply that we keep them laughing all the time. The trick is to be genuinely funny and not TRY to do it. There is a big difference here and if you try too hard it becomes cheesy. If you are not a funny guy...learn. David Deangelo has a concept called "Cocky Funny" in which he advises that you can be cocky in a funny way and girls will love it. I have tried it and it works so this definitely would be a skill to learn.

Eye contact.

This goes with confidence but it also says so much more. Keeping eye contact says that I am paying attention, I'm sure of myself, I'm into you, I have nothing to hide, and so much more. So make sure to lock eyes and speak with confidence.

Of course dressing well, keeping clean, smelling good, staying well groomed etc is part of it. Your appearance will give her a first impression of you so make sure it's a good one.

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Attraction Facts

By Danny

Attraction facts, the things you need to know that are guaranteed to make women attracted to you. These are not the things society says you need, I won't mention wealth, looks or fame in this.

Attraction Facts: 1
Women like Alpha males, by this I mean men that are dominant, lead interactions and decisive. This is the opposite of the guy who can't make up his mind, wants the women to make the first move or buys women drinks. Which leads us nicely to stage 2:

Attraction Facts: 2
Don't supplicate to please women: Ever tried to show a women how dependable you are by running around for her, helping her do shit and generally being an errand boy or provider? If so you'll know it doesn't work. Women want a man who won't run around after her like a puppy dog but will pull her into his world and broaden her horizons.

Attraction Facts: 3
Having a strong reality: Meaning you know who you are, you realise you are a high value guy and are unintimidated by looks or external factors. Ultimately you have an exciting life and are able to meet different women ANYWHERE so no one girl is hugely important to you.

Attraction Facts: 4
You are confident and have a strong voice: Studies have shown that 90% of our communications are non-verbal so a confident man with good body language will always get more women attracted then an insecure guy with terrible sub-communications. Your voice is also key, if a woman can't hear you then she will hear the message: You were build to be ignored. Speak up!

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What Do Men Find Attractive in Women?

By Danny

When a man sees a woman for the first time, it isn't always just about checking out her physical attributes and imagining what she might be like in bed. It's MUCH more than that. He is also checking to see if she looks friendly, approachable, and potentially receptive to his attention. He's also assessing whether or not he should approach that woman and start a conversation.

If you go to dating sites and check men's profiles, you'll notice that the number one quality that men always find attractive in woman is: FUN TO BE WITH!

So, whenever you're feeling open to meeting guys, you should ask yourself this question:

"Am I presenting myself as if I'm having fun?"

Men are ALWAYS more likely to approach you if you look like you are having fun.
Portraying yourself in an inviting way is actually surprisingly easy. Check your posture - are your arms folded or ankles crossed? (Yes, this DOES actually make a difference!)
Are you looking around the room? This is a really obvious sign that you're open to being approached.

Are you making eye contact with anyone? Don't be afraid to catch his eye.
And - MOST IMPORTANTLY! - are you SMILING? A friendly smile is a great way to invite attention and offer him some positive encouragement.

And don't worry. You don't have to paste a big clownish smile on your face for no apparent reason. It's easy to smile without baring your teeth in a huge slice-of-watermelon grin because a real smile isn't about TEETH. It's about EYES!

Here's how to smile in a subtle, inviting way WITHOUT seeming like a lunatic who's grinning for no apparent reason ...

Put a small, but genuine, smile on your closed lips. Let it seep through to your eyes - they should be SLIGHTLY squinted, like a toned-down version of what they do when you're really smiling hard.

Really, it's just about making yourself look happy, positive, and like you're having fun. Someone who's having fun is ALWAYS more attractive than someone who's not. LOOKS are way, way less important than PERSONAL PRESENTATION. Trust me!

Have you ever known any women who seem to be "lucky in love" and where everything involving men seems to come easily and effortlessly to them? Let me tell you...It is not a magic. You don't need to be gorgeous or young either. And you don't have to be LUCKY too.
What you NEED to do is LEARN the secrets!

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What do Women Find Attractive?

By Danny

What is the hardest thing to do when it comes to a woman? It's about understanding her. That's right. No matter how hard you try, there is no way you are able to understand her a hundred percent. Figuring out the woman's character is far from tedious. Seriously, you can hardly figure out what do women find attractive. Women are unpredictable creatures. You got to know this, and make it clear to yourself, before you can step out into the world and have successful relationships with women.

Here is a list of what do women find attractive, generally:

1- Believe it or not, after splurging on an expensive suit and a nice piece of shirt, the woman of your dreams is still not appealed with your rich-man look. That is because not all women want dressy man. Do not be surprised if the guy dressed in overalls wins the heart of the lady. That is how unpredictable the woman's mind is. At the same time, being too gentlemanly can also cause her to be uncomfortable. She dislikes the idea that you treat her too much like royalty! So, just do not go ALL out with your efforts. Keep it mild.

2- You got to have a mind of your own, some how. Although you know that it often makes her angry, it pleases her to see that you too have your own set of principles and comments that you got to offer during a conversation with her. Ego alert! Do not over do it, no matter what. If you tell her too much about YOUR principles, she will find it nothing more than just your ego talking. So, be aware.

3- Guys, you will probably be dead as meat after a hard day at work. Upon hitting the bed, the first thing that comes to your mind is to catch a good night rest. Well, this is the opposite of a woman. No matter how she is feeling mentally or physically, she would find an attentive mate attractive. She loves the attention, the cuddles and the smooches. So give her plenty of those.

4- A little bit of jealousy doesn't hurt. What a woman finds that is so attractive in a man is his ability to show his care and love for her. Let's say that she told you about the co-worker who had a crush on her. How should you react? Although she personally knows the crush is not a big deal, she will enjoy the idea of a caring boyfriend who gets jealous.

5- Women find it attractive in men when they feel some kind of importance in the man's life. She may nag at you for forgetting to pick up your dry cleaning clothes or complain about the crumpled shirt you are wearing. It may sound silly, but sometimes helping you out in these little ways can make a woman feel good and more attracted to you. She definitely does not want to be your Mummy, but it's just that if you need help and she can offer it, she'll feel powerful and important.

Now that you discovered more about the secret side to a woman's heart and mind, it is time to give yourself a little change and adapt to a new lifestyle. You will be charmer in to time!

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Have You Been Single For Too Long?

By Danny

You can always tell when a wild animal has been held in captivity for an extended period of time. There's this glazed look that they get in their eyes...it's unmistakable. It signifies a loss of hope. The same can be said for those who have been single for an equally long stretch of time. And I'm not talking about a couple of months...let's just say this person hasn't had a real date since the last time Samuel L. Jackson made a movie that you actually wanted to see.

What's most unfortunate is many of those same people are unaware that they've even reached this point in their dating lives. So today will serve as a wake up call for them, as I'm going to officially unveil 5 Signs That You've Been Single For Way Too Long.

1- You've Become Out Of TouchIt's been a while since you've actively participated in the dating world. In fact, you probably can't even remember the last time you really enjoyed Valentine's Day. (Note: If the last time you had a Valentine was in the third grade, when your mom bought you that pack of cards that you passed out to your entire class...then that doesn't really count.) Now I'm not placing blame here. I'm simply pointing out the fact that you no longer understand how to date...or even how to interact with the opposite sex in a romantic setting anymore. Time has a way of doing that when you've been away from something for too long.

2- Desperation Sets InIt's gotten to the point where your dating standards have dropped to an embarrassingly low level. There once was a time when you would hold out for Halle or Denzel. Now you're content to settle for Bookman from "Good Times." Not to say there's anything wrong with dating a rotund janitor, but the fact still remains that before the drought you would never dream of settling just for the sake of being with someone.

3- You Read Too Much Into ThingsThis sign goes hand in hand with desperation. It's almost as if every little thing that someone does, translates into you thinking they're attracted to you. Now all of a sudden, your waitress wants to run away with you because she smiled and asked if you wanted extra cheese on your Whopper...or you begin to think your coworker is showing some definite interest because he opened the door for you and said "have a nice day." That may not be the case at all...you may just be suffering from a mild case of delusion that was brought on by an extended dating drought.

4- You've Become BitterSuddenly your views on dating are akin to watching Lauryn Hill's MTV Unplugged Concert or listening to Little Richard discuss the history of Rock and Roll, as all are filled with bitterness. Perhaps it's the past hurt you've endured that's hardened you so. Whatever the case, the fact still remains that you despise the idea of love. You're also quick to talk yourself and others out of being happy. So take a picture...you've officially become the poster child for "Misery Loves Company."

5- You've Become Too PickyThe greatest indicator that you've been single for too long is actually the opposite of being desperate. Instead of settling, you actually find fault in everyone. This sabotages your chances of ever finding happiness. Remember that one guy who was really nice, but you didn't like him because his right ear lobe hung a bit lower? Or what about the woman you shunned because you said she had unusually long elbows? The bottom line is that everyone has faults, but you can't use them as an excuse to stop trying altogether.

The Fly Conclusion-Throughout my travels, I've come across some amazingly beautiful people who are single...and have been for quite some time. This column was not directed towards them. Many of them have deliberately chosen the single path while on their journey of self-discovery.

There are however many others who lack a clear understanding of exactly why they're all alone...it kind of reminds me of how Jennifer Lopez must feel at her album release party. But unlike JLo's singing career, all is not lost. By addressing the signs and maintaining a positive outlook, the dating drought will eventually end. I'm sure of it.

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Why Is So Difficult To Seduce Women These Days?

By Danny

Picking up women sometimes comes down to specific seduction techniques. If you want increase your chances of attracting and seducing a woman, then you should learn about quality routines to use on girls. Picking up women is not easy but it is not difficult either. You just have to know what the right thing to do is.

Woman desire men who pay attention to detail, especially woman who are beautiful. Woman need to feel wanted and needed. They need to feel that they are the only one for you.
But they vital key to seduce women is confidence. Confidence indicates that you are successful and are to be trusted. When you trust yourself, others will as well. Confidence and Cockiness are two things that women find irresistible. If you are confident in yourself a woman can see that and will be drawn to that. Confident men understand this is all part of the game, and take it in stride. Whatever you do, don't let a rejection get under your skin.

Confident men understand this is all part of the game, and take it in stride. Whatever you do, don't let a rejection get under your skin.

Success only came when you stop worrying about how to attract women. Instead, you should worry about how to be happy with yourself. Success is not a get rich quick scheme and will not happen over night. It takes time and hard work to get your seduction plan up and running. Success generally comes with simple approach.

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